Home of Wis-Myth. Just left of Sci-Fi looms Wisdom-Focused Modern Mythology
November 10, 2014
For the
multi-faith explorer, the novels of Susan Howatch - especially her
Church of England series - provide entertainment that delves into many
sides of Christian spirituality. One more recent find, The High Flyer, begins each chapter with a quotation from either of two authors: John Habgood's Confessions of a Conservative Liberal, and David F. Ford's The Shape of Living.
Samples of these quotes offer unique ways to express some of the common
threads that interconnect many religious/spiritual systems, such as:
"Communication
in intimacy takes on a great urgency and even risk. When and how should
I say what I feel? What questions should I ask? What are the limits, in
physical or emotional intimacy, or in commitment? What should be shared
with others? But surrounding and underlying all those is the central
mystery of the other person and what is happening between us." David F.
Ford, The Shape of Living
"The
wounds which most cruelly disfigure the heart are given and received
between lovers, husbands and wives, parents and children, friends,
long-term colleagues and partners - any relationship where deep trust
and loyalty create potentially tragic vulnerability." David F. Ford, The Shape of Living
"The
open door; and the closed door. It is a profoundly religious theme,
because religion has always dealt with what anthropologists call
'thresholds,' those periods of significant transitions in life, the
passing throgh a new door into the unknown ... They are potentially
dangerous moments ... And the question of who stands at the door, and
whether doors are perceived as open or closed, and what we expect to
find on the other side of them, is more than a nice piece of religious
imagery. It has to do with our capacity to change, and with the kind of
security needed to cross some major threshold." John Habgood, Confessions of a Conservative Liberal
"When
someone has compassion on us we find ourselves really seen, heard,
attended to ... If someone's attention is genuinely compassionate it
does not stop at attentiveness: he or she is willing to speak, act and
even suffer with us and for us. It is in such passivity, as we receive
their compassion, that the most powerful dynamics of our own feeling and
activity are shaped. Amazed gratitude for such compassion can last a
lifetime." David F. Ford, The Shape of Living
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Throughout
the past 18 years I often referred to a book that has been called, by
Larry Dossey, M.D., "a spellbinding spiritual walkabout." What Really Matters:
Searching for Wisdom in America, by Tony Schwartz, was published in
1995. Since almost 20 years have passed, of course, he may already have
written a sequel to this fascinating account of explorations in fields
of mysticism, psychology, philosophy, medicine, and science;
nevertheless, his book is a gathering of in-depth reports on the work of
some of the most famous names in American fields of wisdom.
One of the highest recommendations I can offer for What Really Matters
is what he writes in the conclusion of the book called "The Point Is to
Be Real": "What I'm most committed to is searching for my own truth.
Like most people, I still often avoid, or deny, or rationalize, or act
out of habit, or look to blame others in an effort to avoid truths that I
find unpleasant or threatening.
"This
capacity for self-deception sometimes seems infinite. Being honest with
myself now strikes me less as an end - something I'll finally achieve
after enough work - than an ongoing challenge every day. Over time, the
attempt to be more broadly aware has enlarged my life. I spend less of
my energy defensively, and that frees me to reach out to others more
positively and to work more productively. Seeking the truth in the face
of my fears has given shape and passion to my search. In turn, I'm
convinced that the planet's survival - and evolution - depends on our
collective capacity to look within more honestly, and to act more
consciously and less defensively in every sphere of our lives.
"I've grown less hungry for absolute answers and more skeptical of those who claim to have them..."
Given
this taste of Mr. Schwartz's approach, if you've ever been curious
about meditation in various systems, biofeedback, enneagrams, the
mind/body connection, psychic work, transpersonal psychology - to name a
few areas covered - you will find this book worth spending time with.
November 2, 2014
Getting down to basics, paring away distraction and opening up to infinite possibility, this offering from Laotse:
Thirty spokes are made one by holes in a hub,
By vacancies joining them for a wheel's use;
The use of clay in molding pitchers
Comes from the hollow of its absence;
Doors, windows, in a house
Are used for their emptiness;
Thus we are helped by what is not,
To use what is.
Consider this jacket blurb from a precious small text by H. H. the 14th Dalai Lama: "Real compassion extends to each and every sentient being, not just to friends, or family, or those in terrible situations. True love and compassion extend even to those who wish to harm you. Try to imagine that your enemies are purposefully making trouble in order to help you accumulate positive forces for shaping the future - what Buddhists call 'merit' - and face them with patience. If your life goes along too easily, you become soft. Trying circumstances help you develop inner strength and the courage to face difficulty without emotional breakdown. Who teaches this? Not your friend, but your enemy." How to Be Compassionate, His Holiness the Dalai Lama, 2011, Atria Books, a division of Simon & Schuster, Inc.
The Medium is the Massage: An Inventory of Effects,
1967
By Marshall McLuhan & Quentin Fiore
In 1970 I was urged to read this book,
and affected by the reading, keeping five legal-sized pages of
quotations from the book that have remained in my files.
McLuhan
emphasized that rather than make value judgments, he explored human
perceptions and sensibilities. He was known to predict the World Wide
Web as early as 1962 and coined the term "surfing" as applied, to quote
Wikipedia, "to rapid, irregular and multidirectional movement through a
hetrogeneous body of documents or knowledge."
Indeed,
in the early sixties he heralded a new age based on the uniting factor
of electronic media and coined the term "global village," inspired by
Teilhard de Chardin and James Joyce.
Marshall's son Eric shares that the book title being The Medium is the Massage
originated from a typesetting error with the word "message." Seeing the
typo, Marshall exclaimed, "Leave it alone! It's great, and right on
target!"
Eric further
offers that there are four possible versions of that word, each one
accurate: "Message," "Mess Age," "Massage," and "Mass Age."
Quentin
Fiore's role as designer and co-author of the book stemmed from their
both thinking along the same paths, and from Fiore's impressive graphic
design background and depth of technological concepts.
So here are a few of the quotes that I jotted down in 1970:
"'Precision'
is sacrificed for a greater degree of suggestion. Myth is the mode of
simultaneous awareness of a complex group of causes and effects."
"Electric
circuitry confers a mythic dimension on our ordinary individual and
group actions. Our technology forces us to live mythically, but we
continue to think fragmentarily, and on single, separate planes."
"Myth
means putting on the audience, putting on one's environment. The
Beatles do this. They are a group of people who suddenly were able to
put on their audience and the English language with musical effects -
putting on a whole vesture, a whole time, a Zeit."
"Young people are looking for a formula for putting on the universe - participation mystique. They do not look for detached patterns - for ways of relating themselves to the world, a la nineteenth century."
"Most people find it difficult to understand purely verbal concepts. They suspect
the ear; they don't trust it. In general we feel more secure when
things are visible, when we can 'see for ourselves.' We admonish
children, for instance, to 'believe only half of what they see, and nothing of what they hear.' All kinds of 'shorthand' systems of notation have been developed to help us see what we hear."
"We employ visual and spatial metaphors for a great many everyday expressions. We insist
on employing visual metaphors even when we refer to purely
psychological states, such as tendency and duration. For instance, we
say thereafter when we really mean thenafter, always when we mean at all times. We are so visually biased that we call our wisest men visionaries, or seers!"
"The
Finn cycle of tribal institutions can return in the electric age, but
if again, then let's make it a wake or awake or both. Joyce could see no
advantage in our remaining locked up in each cultural cycle as in a
trance or dream. He discovered the means of living simultaneously in all
cultural modes while quite conscious."
"Media,
by altering the environment, evoke in us unique ratios of sense
perceptions. The extension of any one sense alters the way we think and
act - the way we perceive the world. When these ratios change, men
change."
"The new feeling
that people have about guilt is not something that can be privately
assigned to some individual, but is rather something shared by
everybody, in some mysterious way. This feeling seems to be returning to
our midst. In tribal societies we are told that it is a familiar
reaction, when some hideous event occurs for some people to say, 'How
horrible it must be to feel like that,' instead of blaming somebody for
having done something horrible. This feeling is an aspect of the new
mass culture we are moving into - a world of total involvement in which
everybody is so profoundly involved with everybody else and in which
nobody can really imagine what private guilt can be anymore."
"The
main obstacle to a clear understanding of the effects of the new media
is our deeply imbedded habit of regarding all phenomena from a fixed
point of view. We speak, for instance, of 'gaining perspective.' This
psychological process derives unconsciously from print technology. Print
technology created the public. Electric technology created the mass.
The public consists of separate individuals walking around with
separate, fixed points of view. The new technology demands that we
abandon the luxury of this posture, this fragmentary outlook."
Steve Jobs, advice to Stanford University graduates, included in Shambhala Sun, November, 2014:
"Remembering
that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered
to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything -
all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or
failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only
what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the
best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to
lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your
heart."
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